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Gen Y – how you stock your fridge can be important to your career!

How you stock your fridge is a valuable behavioural interview question!

In the absence of her manager, I was recently asked to sit in on some graduate entry-level interviews to support and mentor, Tanya, a new addition to the Talent Management team of an international company. As we mapped out the structure of our individual roles, Tanya’s proposed line of questioning took me by surprise!

Who stocks the fridge?

While I was assigned to cover the traditional HR areas, transferable skills, communication ability, future goals, leadership potential and so on, Tanya’s line of questioning came from a totally different angle. She intended to throw into the interview pot questions on where/how candidates bought their groceries, where they lived and what they ate and cooked.

I must have looked faintly mystified. How you stock your fridge is important because…? She clarified: “Some entry-level candidates are babied by their parents. They order their kids groceries for them on-line with home delivery. They set up accounts in takeaways, shops and restaurants with the bills being sent to Mum and Dad. They arrange for cleaners or even come to clean their kids houses/rooms themselves.  Some candidates wouldn’t recognise an egg in its shell, let alone know how to cook one. They live off junk food. Some mothers freeze and label a month’s worth of dinners and put them their kid’s freezers!   One candidate told me how he had been told off by a delivery man for paying a £2.50 delivery charge on a £2.00 item, rather than go out in the rain. The more wealthy parents buy their children houses and apartments, so they can live in a nice area.  Even parents who are not well off get into debt.


Aged 28, Tanya is a relatively recent graduate herself and as she gently reminded me, more in touch with what really goes on with her generation. Her own recent student experiences gives her an insight into the way some candidates have lived during their student days. She was quick to add: “Clearly not all are like that so it’s important to sort them out. This is just another way of identifying which ones are independent and can stand on their own 2 feet, or which ones are still firmly bound to their parents. We need candidates who are self – sufficient practically and psychologically. It’s a skill to be able to balance all your domestic chores with your professional commitments and we don’t want candidates who can’t cope”

Helicopter parents

I am of course very familiar with helicopter parents in the recruitment process, so it shouldn’t have come as a surprise that if parents are involved in these procedures then they are also pro-active in their lives as students. But it did! All students are delighted to have the odd cake or pie from home (I was!) but their weekly groceries? I think I would have thought I had died and gone to heaven!

So although parents think they are supporting their offspring, this is just another way of depriving them of learning valuable life skills  (budgeting, time management, prioritising, healthy living, becoming a judicious consumer to name only a few) which can impact their careers if they are not in place. As the interviews unfolded a surprising number did come unstuck. How you stock your fridge turned out to be a valuable behavioural interview question.

I think I learned as much from Tanya as she did from me.

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6 thoughts on “Gen Y – how you stock your fridge can be important to your career!

  1. Darren Davies

    Excellent points Dorothy. I would thrown into the mix: car ownership and maintenance very often funded by the Bank M & D (Mum and Dad) and even laundry/ironing services. We’ve had entry level employees who in the early days struggled to get to work in a clean looking shirt! One recruit only ironed the parts of his shirt that showed under a jacket which he had to take off. Unfortunately in some cases this “babying ” carries on for many years especially if the entry level person still lives at home. This is becoming increasingly coomon again in this recession because they cannot afford to move out or have even moved back in with their parents.

    1. Dorothy Dalton

      Hi Annabel – thanks for you comment. I think many parents believe they are supporting their children as young adults but this just serves to delay the maturing process and leaave them ill-prepared for independent life in the work place.

  2. heathergstubbs

    What penetrating insight your client had! Your article is a real eye-opener, Dorothy! Since my field is training presentation skills, the world of HR is a little outside my area, although I do help people prepare for job interviews. Your thoughts have enlarged my ability to help. Thank you! I always find your articles interesting, Dorothy.

    1. Dorothy Dalton

      Thanks Heather. Tanya was very skillful in just conversationally drawing this information out of the candidates. I was suprised at the number of candidates who clearly never shopped or cooked for themselves and relied on their parents. It will be interesting to see how that reflects in any testing about initiative, willingness to make independent decisions etc and if there is indeed a correlation.


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